(An updated version of this post and all blogs on the subject of religion have been moved to ravensreligiousstudies.blogspot.com )
(Note: when I speak of Christianity in this post, I am specifically referring to the conservative institution in the USA, and certainly not all Christians.)
Just yesterday, lawmakers in Idaho proposed making the state officially and formally a Christian state. Thank goodness, most of the other lawmakers have brains enough to recognize the bill's unconstitutionality and immediately moved to shelve the suggestion. But bills like this have been popping up across the country, claiming to be a response to the "war against Christianity" supposedly being waged by humanists and homosexuals and freaks like myself.
It doesn't matter how many times we all explain that there is no war against Christianity, that we have no interest in taking their rights away, etc. They're convinced. So I thought about it, and maybe they're right: maybe the war Christianity started centuries ago against paganism and homosexuals and science never really ended, They just say it's our war against Christianity to justify their preemptive strikes.
So, if we ARE in a war (see http://www.afa.net/bigotrymap# for their "battle plans"), we need to consider things carefully... Just as the U S is not at war with Islam, (except, apparently, the Christian right... Coincidence?) but religious extremism and terror, we need to make fully clear that we are at war with Christian special privilege. Some thoughts I have in this line are:
Christians do not get to define marriage when other religions have different opinions- we DO have a constitution.
Christians do not get to claim their religious rights are violated by gay marriage any more than Jews get to claim persecution by bacon.
Christmas is not the only winter holiday that matters.
If Christian creationism gets taught in schools as fact, so does Hinduism's creation story.
If you get proselytize me, I get to bless you by calling the four elements.
If you say abortion is an abomination to God, you better be damn well prepared to submit evidence that your God exists but mine doesn't, and it better hold more water than, "Because the Bible says so."
Thursday, February 26, 2015
Friday, February 13, 2015
Happy 50 Shades Day!
(Adult content will now be found at raventaboo.blogspot.com )
(Photo has been removed to comply with Blogger's new censorship policy, which was a waste of time because they didn't implement it.) Happy
ppy 50 Shades Day! Yes, I'm actually excited about this movie. I couldn't get through the book, but I think the movie will be better because the actors will give the characters more life and depth. But that's not what I'm excited for. I'm excited that it will reach an even bigger audience of vanilla people and give my community some visibility. Suddenly it's a note acceptable lifestyle, and perhaps somehow it will make room for polyamory to become more accepted, too. When co workers ask what i did over the weekend, I'm afraid to honestly answer. They all knew about Ru because we've been together a long time... But how do I explain my secondary when most of my coworkers don't even know I'm a Witch? Some of them are pretty conservative, so I've kept my mouth shut- I'm not trying to start drama. But it pains me that I can't be myself at work. For me, BDSM and polyamory essential to my sexual wellbeing. As an LGBT person says, "This is who I am," and "I was born this way," kink is not something I just use to spice up the sex life. I knew I was kinky before I knew I was sexual- I tried to get boys to tie me up or handcuff me WAY before I was even dating. (Cops and Robbers!) It's not just something to spice up my sex life, and it has served much deeper purposes in my life, as a catalyst for some spiritual experiences. But there's a lot of judgement and misinformation out there, and even potential discrimination. In Vegas I felt liberated, but the more conservative areas of the country- that is, virtually everywhere else- sexuality is still something to be hidden and deviance shamed. So I'm excited that it's coming out. We probably won't see it right away, but my boys and I and the girl we've been flirting with are going. To me, supporting this movie equals supporting the BDSM Scene and it's place in our culture.
(Photo has been removed to comply with Blogger's new censorship policy, which was a waste of time because they didn't implement it.) Happy
ppy 50 Shades Day! Yes, I'm actually excited about this movie. I couldn't get through the book, but I think the movie will be better because the actors will give the characters more life and depth. But that's not what I'm excited for. I'm excited that it will reach an even bigger audience of vanilla people and give my community some visibility. Suddenly it's a note acceptable lifestyle, and perhaps somehow it will make room for polyamory to become more accepted, too. When co workers ask what i did over the weekend, I'm afraid to honestly answer. They all knew about Ru because we've been together a long time... But how do I explain my secondary when most of my coworkers don't even know I'm a Witch? Some of them are pretty conservative, so I've kept my mouth shut- I'm not trying to start drama. But it pains me that I can't be myself at work. For me, BDSM and polyamory essential to my sexual wellbeing. As an LGBT person says, "This is who I am," and "I was born this way," kink is not something I just use to spice up the sex life. I knew I was kinky before I knew I was sexual- I tried to get boys to tie me up or handcuff me WAY before I was even dating. (Cops and Robbers!) It's not just something to spice up my sex life, and it has served much deeper purposes in my life, as a catalyst for some spiritual experiences. But there's a lot of judgement and misinformation out there, and even potential discrimination. In Vegas I felt liberated, but the more conservative areas of the country- that is, virtually everywhere else- sexuality is still something to be hidden and deviance shamed. So I'm excited that it's coming out. We probably won't see it right away, but my boys and I and the girl we've been flirting with are going. To me, supporting this movie equals supporting the BDSM Scene and it's place in our culture.
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
A Look at Hate
Lately the headlines are dominated by stories revolving around hate: jihad, racism, discrimation based on sexual orientation... It seems to be the topic of the year. But I feel like no one is really looking at this right. I think most everyone agrees that hate is a horrible thing, so how on Earth is it so pervasive? Because when it happens, we turn a blind eye. We don't see it for what it is, because the root of hate has nothing to do with race or religion or sexual orientation. People think that hate should feel like anger or jealousy, a burning desire to harm. In my experience, hate is directed at chosen targets based on an entitlement, or an excuse as to why picking on that person is acceptable, but hate is originally sourced from a desire to be "better" than something else, due to insecurities. Think about the fact that there are lists of people "we love to hate." Hollywood thrives on this. Yes, that's all hate is. Everyone's felt it. Everything else is just a matter of how insecure the hateful person is, how entitled they feel to pick on the other person, how riled up they're feeling at the moment, and what they think they can get away with. It's really no different from bullying, and it's far more widespread, perpetuated by "harmless" jokes among friends, awkward moments that inspire teasing, and the tendency to justify the little stuff that unfairly adds up. We can't solve this issue through pointing fingers at who is hating on who and demanding they stop. There has to be a real transition in our culture toward admitting to ourselves when we aren't treating a person fairly, for whatever reason, and making efforts to treat others the way we want them to treat us.
Saturday, March 10, 2012
Thoughts on this reality show I've applied for...
I'm sure a lot of people are wondering about my choice to apply for this reality show, and to be honest, I don't know what the producers' intentions are. I first found the link on the Witches' Voice newsfeed, and every comment was negative, voicing concerns that they would make us look like freaks, or that someone would get on the show who "doesn't know their cauldron from calling the corners."
The ad reads: "Major cable network is on the hunt for the BEST voodoo / witchcraft shop in America!
If you think you've got the skills, the personality and the business for television then contact us immediately. Feel free to submit yourself or someone else.
This is a paid opportunity.
You don't have to work in a shop in order to qualify. You can also practice out of your home or travel. Nationwide casting."
This suggests to me that the producers don't know what to expect, but they think that someone who owns a shop will be more deeply involved in the occult than an average practitioner, and that a shop full of witches will make for better TV than just one. But they're keeping their options open, and I like that.
There is a lot of fear in the Pagan community on a lot of levels. Mainstream culture has not always looked upon us favorably, and they don't want more negative attention (something reality shows are known for). There is a lot of irony in the fact that they want to celebrate being different, but don't want to be perceived that way.
Unfortunately, making a show about how Witches are just like everyone else (as some comments suggested) would not make for good television. People would be bored to death! Get too normal, and the editing crew would be forced to pick out every little disagreement as the most interesting bits, leading to just another Jersey Shores type show. If the WOW! factor can be kept high, there's a lot less room for those kinds of editing choices.
There were a lot of references on WitchVox to a show called Mad Mad House, and I thought I should watch it to find out what they were all griping about. Honestly, the show didn't cast us in nearly such a negative light as I expected (hardly at all, really), which shows again the fear of being perceived too differently. I also found Fiona Horne's blog about filming the show, which was enlightening about what the editors did that was misleading (playing up arguments and relationships, mostly).
So, why do I want to do this? For one, I'm already doing it on a small scale with Ritual Network. One of the comments that popped up a lot in the WitchVox forum is "no real witch would want their rituals on TV." There are a number of reasons I disagree with this comment, and this should be no surprise as I've already been doing just that on Ritual Network. For one thing, Silvia Brallier described being clergy as "doing your work in public," and for another, the public rituals are for the benefit of the audience/ the greater Pagan community as much as for me.
Honestly I expect to get more flack than accolades if I do get this show, but I'm not out to convince the world to like me or change anyone's opinion, but rather to offer some support and encouragement to those who seek it from me, and to show the world that there is no shame in doing magick, and to normalize its practice to an extent. That people may look upon it with curiosity rather than fear.
Joseph Campbell said that if you follow your bliss, doors will open where you don't expect them and where they wouldn't open for anyone else. In the event this is not that door, I will not give up on my bliss...
Ultimately, it would be cool to create a ritual theater-type experience that could potentially reach a very large audience. That's my great joy in life- creating a magickal experience for others, and I only hope this show will be the vehicle to expand on my work while also supporting my family. May it harm none, so mote it be!
You can help my chances of getting the show by voting for me. You don't have to sign up, and you can vote once a day. Vote here: http://www.realitywanted.com/call/16207-voodoo-witch-shop-is-wanted-for-new-tv-show-casting-now
The ad reads: "Major cable network is on the hunt for the BEST voodoo / witchcraft shop in America!
If you think you've got the skills, the personality and the business for television then contact us immediately. Feel free to submit yourself or someone else.
This is a paid opportunity.
You don't have to work in a shop in order to qualify. You can also practice out of your home or travel. Nationwide casting."
This suggests to me that the producers don't know what to expect, but they think that someone who owns a shop will be more deeply involved in the occult than an average practitioner, and that a shop full of witches will make for better TV than just one. But they're keeping their options open, and I like that.
There is a lot of fear in the Pagan community on a lot of levels. Mainstream culture has not always looked upon us favorably, and they don't want more negative attention (something reality shows are known for). There is a lot of irony in the fact that they want to celebrate being different, but don't want to be perceived that way.
Unfortunately, making a show about how Witches are just like everyone else (as some comments suggested) would not make for good television. People would be bored to death! Get too normal, and the editing crew would be forced to pick out every little disagreement as the most interesting bits, leading to just another Jersey Shores type show. If the WOW! factor can be kept high, there's a lot less room for those kinds of editing choices.
There were a lot of references on WitchVox to a show called Mad Mad House, and I thought I should watch it to find out what they were all griping about. Honestly, the show didn't cast us in nearly such a negative light as I expected (hardly at all, really), which shows again the fear of being perceived too differently. I also found Fiona Horne's blog about filming the show, which was enlightening about what the editors did that was misleading (playing up arguments and relationships, mostly).
So, why do I want to do this? For one, I'm already doing it on a small scale with Ritual Network. One of the comments that popped up a lot in the WitchVox forum is "no real witch would want their rituals on TV." There are a number of reasons I disagree with this comment, and this should be no surprise as I've already been doing just that on Ritual Network. For one thing, Silvia Brallier described being clergy as "doing your work in public," and for another, the public rituals are for the benefit of the audience/ the greater Pagan community as much as for me.
Honestly I expect to get more flack than accolades if I do get this show, but I'm not out to convince the world to like me or change anyone's opinion, but rather to offer some support and encouragement to those who seek it from me, and to show the world that there is no shame in doing magick, and to normalize its practice to an extent. That people may look upon it with curiosity rather than fear.
Joseph Campbell said that if you follow your bliss, doors will open where you don't expect them and where they wouldn't open for anyone else. In the event this is not that door, I will not give up on my bliss...
Ultimately, it would be cool to create a ritual theater-type experience that could potentially reach a very large audience. That's my great joy in life- creating a magickal experience for others, and I only hope this show will be the vehicle to expand on my work while also supporting my family. May it harm none, so mote it be!
You can help my chances of getting the show by voting for me. You don't have to sign up, and you can vote once a day. Vote here: http://www.realitywanted.com/call/16207-voodoo-witch-shop-is-wanted-for-new-tv-show-casting-now
Saturday, March 3, 2012
2012 and the Mayan Long-Count Calendar
I have had several people ask me my opinion of the 2012 end of the Mayan Long-count calendar, and it's been asked often enough that I think I just need to post it here. I hope it helps!
"What are your thoughts on the significance of this year, 2012?"
Obviously you're referring to the end of the Mayan long-count calendar. Most people like me do NOT consider this to be a doomsday event, but a major change. I can't say for sure since Mayan history and folklore are not my specialty, but other cultures have similar calendars, most notably related to something called the "precession of the Equinox." The Earth wobbles a little bit on its axis, and every couple thousand years the sun is in a different sign on the spring equinox. While Western astrology still considers March 21 (approx.) to fall in the sign of Aries, that hasn't been the case for well over two thousand years. Around the year 1 AD, the sun started moving into Pisces on the spring equinox, beginning the Piscean age, and now the sun is in Aquarius on that day (yes, "This is the dawning of the Age of Aquarius..."). It generally takes about 100 years for the changes to fully take place, but from what we've seen in the past, it's pretty distinct. It should not be surprising that the symbol for Christianity is the fish (the cross was adopted later) and it has been the dominant religion during the Piscean age. The Arian age before that was defined by empires and tribes constantly at war with one another. Before that, the ancient Egyptians and Babylonians described the Great Bull (Taurus) breaking open the Egg of the Year, and it was a time of developing civilization. (Note: the Mayan calendar is NOT based on the Precession of the Equinox, but other astrological events. I feel it's a worthy comparison, though. The Americas had their own eras, and perhaps the Mayan calendar better reflected those.)
So we come to Now. We have already been seeing great upheavals in our society as the old Piscean modalities are being broken down, making way for the new Aquarian social constructs. We can see how much fear there is over change, and certain groups grabbing frantically to hold on to the old things that no longer serve us. Technology has made incredible leaps forward in the past 50 years- far greater leaps than ever seen before. Also civil rights began changing dramatically about that time. The way the younger generations see reality is drastically different from our grandparent's worldview. This year is special because of the way that the Earth will line up with Galactic Central point on Winter Solstice, suggesting to me the turning point in this change. It's not going to be an easy change, but the world will be better for it once we're done. Aquarius is all about flow, intuition, and connection. The internet is a perfect example of new modalities replacing the old. The world is connected like it has never been before, and through it people are learning tolerance of differences in culture and lifestyle, even celebrating those differences. We're becoming more aware of our relationship to the Earth, and beginning to honor it.
This is probably going to be a very difficult year or two in a lot of ways, but there is a reason for that. In our culture, we have a distinct lack of Rites of Passage. Tribal cultures have used rites of passage to help individuals transition between childhood and adulthood, usually involving an ordeal that serves to change the perception of the individual toward himself, and for others to recognize that growth. This time of upheaval is our great rite of passage, because without it, the world will not be able to see itself as different from before, and fully integrate the growth and changes we are experiencing. It would be WAY easier if we just had a great medicine man who could shake a stick and make a fire flash some pretty colors as a spectacle for the tribe and say, "The gods say we must change! This is how we will behave from now on." It worked for Moses, right? (NOT to mock Judaism or Christianity- I do have respect, and I also understand from the position of a Priestess how a little psychodrama is all that is required to truly experience God.) The big joke is, we're going to create that change this year because we believe it can happen this year: it's a self-fulfilling prophesy. We're all ready for that change, we just need permission to be different. :)
"What are your thoughts on the significance of this year, 2012?"
Obviously you're referring to the end of the Mayan long-count calendar. Most people like me do NOT consider this to be a doomsday event, but a major change. I can't say for sure since Mayan history and folklore are not my specialty, but other cultures have similar calendars, most notably related to something called the "precession of the Equinox." The Earth wobbles a little bit on its axis, and every couple thousand years the sun is in a different sign on the spring equinox. While Western astrology still considers March 21 (approx.) to fall in the sign of Aries, that hasn't been the case for well over two thousand years. Around the year 1 AD, the sun started moving into Pisces on the spring equinox, beginning the Piscean age, and now the sun is in Aquarius on that day (yes, "This is the dawning of the Age of Aquarius..."). It generally takes about 100 years for the changes to fully take place, but from what we've seen in the past, it's pretty distinct. It should not be surprising that the symbol for Christianity is the fish (the cross was adopted later) and it has been the dominant religion during the Piscean age. The Arian age before that was defined by empires and tribes constantly at war with one another. Before that, the ancient Egyptians and Babylonians described the Great Bull (Taurus) breaking open the Egg of the Year, and it was a time of developing civilization. (Note: the Mayan calendar is NOT based on the Precession of the Equinox, but other astrological events. I feel it's a worthy comparison, though. The Americas had their own eras, and perhaps the Mayan calendar better reflected those.)
So we come to Now. We have already been seeing great upheavals in our society as the old Piscean modalities are being broken down, making way for the new Aquarian social constructs. We can see how much fear there is over change, and certain groups grabbing frantically to hold on to the old things that no longer serve us. Technology has made incredible leaps forward in the past 50 years- far greater leaps than ever seen before. Also civil rights began changing dramatically about that time. The way the younger generations see reality is drastically different from our grandparent's worldview. This year is special because of the way that the Earth will line up with Galactic Central point on Winter Solstice, suggesting to me the turning point in this change. It's not going to be an easy change, but the world will be better for it once we're done. Aquarius is all about flow, intuition, and connection. The internet is a perfect example of new modalities replacing the old. The world is connected like it has never been before, and through it people are learning tolerance of differences in culture and lifestyle, even celebrating those differences. We're becoming more aware of our relationship to the Earth, and beginning to honor it.
This is probably going to be a very difficult year or two in a lot of ways, but there is a reason for that. In our culture, we have a distinct lack of Rites of Passage. Tribal cultures have used rites of passage to help individuals transition between childhood and adulthood, usually involving an ordeal that serves to change the perception of the individual toward himself, and for others to recognize that growth. This time of upheaval is our great rite of passage, because without it, the world will not be able to see itself as different from before, and fully integrate the growth and changes we are experiencing. It would be WAY easier if we just had a great medicine man who could shake a stick and make a fire flash some pretty colors as a spectacle for the tribe and say, "The gods say we must change! This is how we will behave from now on." It worked for Moses, right? (NOT to mock Judaism or Christianity- I do have respect, and I also understand from the position of a Priestess how a little psychodrama is all that is required to truly experience God.) The big joke is, we're going to create that change this year because we believe it can happen this year: it's a self-fulfilling prophesy. We're all ready for that change, we just need permission to be different. :)
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
A successful Samhain
Despite some initial technical problems, last night's Samhain sabbat on Ritual Network was a resounding success. It was a major milestone: Ritual Network's first group ritual, first Sabbat, first outdoor ritual. Fraught with challenges which I had not previously faced in my sanctum sanctorum, it was also far more rewarding.
Sky has officially joined Ritual Network as our resident High Priest, and we can't wait to start preparing for Yule. Things will only get better from here. :)
Ritual Network would like to thank Jenny for allowing us the use of her space, Rufus for taking a couple hours out of his busy schedule to make an absolutely amazing Anubis mask, Morgan for her role in the ritual, and everyone who chose to witness. Thank you!
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Sky has officially joined Ritual Network as our resident High Priest, and we can't wait to start preparing for Yule. Things will only get better from here. :)
Ritual Network would like to thank Jenny for allowing us the use of her space, Rufus for taking a couple hours out of his busy schedule to make an absolutely amazing Anubis mask, Morgan for her role in the ritual, and everyone who chose to witness. Thank you!
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Monday, October 24, 2011
A True Democracy?
New Idea: I just commented on a couple of political posts on FB, and it occurred to me that perhaps we're trying so hard to fix this broken system that we've missed the fact that it has become obsolete. Once upon a time, it was the best governmental system on Earth for the average citizen. But it has become corrupt, and we will likely never work out all the bugs. The United States currently runs as a Democratic-Republic, meaning that the people vote in officials (Democracy) to make our laws (Republic). This system was chosen because at the time of its inception, it was the best way for the people's voices to be heard. It was impossible to count every vote with any sort of accuracy back then, so for things such as the Presidential election, an electoral college was created. We've already found the limitations in this system and debated lightly about abolishing it. Congress is designed for the same purpose as the electoral college. But now we have the greatest resource ever known to Man: the Internet. With a few clicks, every computer in America is able to access the exact wording of all the bills that are being debated. It's far more difficult to attach self-serving legislation into a proposal if ten million people can call you out on it. However, it would require the people to step up and take responsibility for our own governing, which seems to be the new paradigm anyway. Imagine it: a true democracy that makes laws for itself.
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